Courage, not the cowardly dog!
We all have our own beliefs. We expect so much from the world but we forget that the world expects from us too. Law of neutralization, if there is good, there is bad too. If there is a God, there is a Devil; if there is sad, there is happy too.
How easily do we accept loss? Why? It is very easy to accept failure, it is so easy to be callous, not to care, “don’t give a fuck” attitude. I say that’s cowardice. It takes courage and character to take care. Your life fucking means something, you can’t fuck with it just because something bad happened, and you just can’t. Life has to move on and you owe it to yourself. Stop taking all the shit and do things that are actually good. It requires strength to be someone, be someone nice. It takes nothing to stop caring and take a leave from reality. We all know the survival of the fittest. Not that you cannot do anything, we’re all born with something in us. Study yourself, believe in yourself.
Something nice appeared in my tarot card reading today, it said, "An existential phase of renewal is in the cards. For you, love is untrustworthy and your lack of faith will appear as dependence, so you need to fight against hysteria, fear of abandonment and castles in the air. Your inner life cannot accommodate the tenderness that you are shown. Get in touch with your inner feelings." I feel like it is so true not just for me but all of us, it is important to stay in touch with our inner feelings for you are what you feel.
The Dream
I dreamed that you had ceased to love me—
not that you had come from other beds
back to mine, or gone from mine to others,
just that something in your heart had stopped.
I willed myself awake to find you still
beside me. It was just a dream, I thought,
yet when I turned to kiss you, in your eyes
I saw that you had ceased to love me.
I willed myself awake a second time
to find myself alone, as I have been
these many months, but did not know if it
was terror or relief I felt, and whether
dreams unfold the past or make the future
plain. I dreamed that you had ceased to love me,
and know when I see nothing in your eyes
I can't dream myself awake a third time.
-David Solway
Love, or not!
If you love someone, love that person, don’t judge, don’t expect, just love. And if you cannot do that, don’t ever say that you love that person because you don’t, maybe it is just something you want, you should not mistake it with love because love is selfless, not selfish and as Joey said it on FRIENDS, “It is about giving and receiving as well as having and sharing!” Learning this has been one hell of a journey and I am still learning only!
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
1 John 3:18
Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
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